Eleven years ago, at 12:45 p.m., my life was ruined. An 8 pound, 9.6 ounce baby CAME OUT OF MY BODY…and he changed everything. The life that I had been leading for over 24 ignorant, care-free years was ruined. And on October 19th, 2004, the personified promise of Parker snuggled warmly against my chest and…